This heartfelt and candid memoir serves as an essential guide for anyone navigating life after loss. It recounts one woman's journey through three marriages, two funerals, and one divorce, while offering valuable insights and practical wisdom for others on similar paths. The personal narrative begins in the shadowy world of organized crime, where the author’s first husband introduces a sense of danger into their lives, where dinner guests check their firearms at the door. Following this, she embarks on an impulsive romance with a man ten years her junior, which brings its own challenges, including the waitstaff routinely carding her husband whenever they go out. The heart of the story centers on Clayton, the author’s third husband and true soulmate. He is a methodical engineer who fell in love with a free-spirited former go-go dancer and entertainer. But it’s not just Bobbie’s story. There are also the voices of fellow survivors, widows, and widowers sharing their stories.